The Promise of the Rainbow

(This is a slightly revised version of the dvar torah I delivered last Friday evening 10/8/10 on Shabbat Noach.)

Thoughts on Noach (2010/5711)

(Gen. 6:9 – 11:12)

          In Psalm 29, which we sang as part of Kabbalat Shabbat, the psalmist caps off his ode to God’s power and might with the image of “Adonai lamabul yashav”/ “The Eternal sitting enthroned at the time of the great Flood.”   This week, in accordance with the Torah reading cycle, Jews around the world are revisiting the story of the flood, as we’ll do in Torah study tomorrow morning at 9:15 and during our Torah reading that comes in the midst of our 10:00 Shabbat morning service.      

          What prompts God to get so incensed with humanity that God decides to unleash the destructive force of ha-mabul/ the Flood?  The Torah tells us that it’s because  “Vatimaley ha’aretz chamas” / “The earth was filled with violence.” (Gen. 6:11) .

          At the end of the flood story, with the establishment of the Noachide Covenant and with the appearance of the rainbow as its symbol, God promises never again to bring about such a flood.   Sadly, however, that’s not because violence has ceased to plague the earth.  Rather, it’s because, given humanity’s violent nature, God decides to set the bar lower for all of us who follow after Noah.

          We have surely been reminded in recent weeks about the violence that fouls our society --- in particular, the physical and emotional violence of bullying.   And, in particular, the bullying of teens who are or who are perceived to be gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender.   This bullying, whether it involve physical assault, name-calling or cyber-bullying, is thought to have been a prime cause in a series of recent suicides including the recent suicide of Rutgers university freshman Tyler Clementi.

          Like many of you, I have been very troubled in recent weeks by the story of Tyler Clementi.   The exact factual circumstances behind his suicide are still the subject of criminal investigation.  His roommate who broadcast Tyler’s intimate encounter with another man might not have been motivated by anti-gay hatred – he could have just been a jerk with a video camera playing a prank that turned deadly.  I know that, for me at least, it FEELS different than the deadly physical assault that played out against Matthew Sheppard at this time of year 12 years ago.  And it FEELS different to me than back in the 1970’s when I was in middle school and high school and I was called faggot all the time just for loving classical music and not being good at or interested in sports like football, baseball and basketball.

          The world of today also FEELS different to me than that of my own high school years in terms of overall acceptance and welcoming of gay people in society.  Back in the 1970’s I could never have imagined that I would be admitted to rabbinical school as an openly gay candidate and be ordained in a class in which 50% of us were gay or lesbian.   Back in the 1970’s I could never have imagined that I would someday get to have a Jewish wedding to another Jewish man, under a chuppah and officiated by a rabbi   -- and that my Jewish marriage would be legally recognized by my then-home state of Vermont.  And back in the 1970’s I could never have imagined that I’d be hired to be a rabbi of a congregation so committed to GLBT inclusion that all three finalists for the position I was being hired for were gay or lesbian  --  and that the congregation would encourage ME to participate in the local pride festival and parade.

          But – I – along with all of the other queer folks in the United States  -- am still treated as a second class citizen under the law of the land. And while I believe our own Temple is a true welcoming congregation – voices of intolerance nevertheless still ring out in many school playgrounds, houses of worship and legislative chambers.  This can lead to feelings of despair and psychic vulnerability on the part of GLBT youth.  And this can lead to feelings of entitlement and permission on the part of their bullies and tormentors.

          The Torah says that Noah was a righteous man and above reproach IN HIS GENERATION and that he walked WITH God.  “Ish tzadik, tamim hayah bedorotav, et ha’elohim hithalech noach” (Gen. 6:9).  But in the midrashic tradition there is an argument about whether this is just faint praise – that maybe Noah could be seen as righteous IN HIS GENERATION because it was such a violent and corrupt generation, whereas in any other time he would not have been seen as being so great. By contrast Torah teaches that Abraham was righteous (without any caveat about being righteous just in his generation)  -- and speaks of Abraham walking not WITH God (like Noah) but BEFORE GOD ---  as we learn in Gen 17:1 where Torah teaches –  God said to Abraham Hithalekh lefanay veheyey tamim. (Walk before me and be above reproach)  

          Noah is the guy who doesn’t commit violence himself – but still doesn’t step OUT FRONT to argue with God not to destroy the world with a flood.

          Abraham is the guy who doesn’t assault and degrade defenseless strangers as do the people of Sodom and Gomorrah but he DOES STEP OUT FRONT to argue with God – to argue against the status quo and plead for compassion on the world and for the God of justice to do justly.

          Perhaps in our own time Noah is the decent enough person who yet doesn’t do anything to stand up to bullies -- whereas Abraham is the guy who will. 

          We can and ought to step up as well -- That’s the subject of an important campaign being waged by a Boston-based organization called Keshet (You can find it on the internet at www.keshetonline.org) .  “Keshet” is the Hebrew word for rainbow – like the rainbow at the sort-of-happy ending of the Noah story.  Keshet's mission is to ensure that gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender Jews are fully included in all parts of the Jewish community.  In the Greater Boston area, Keshet offers social and cultural events for GLBT Jews.  Nationally, Keshet offers support, training, and resources to create a Jewish community that welcomes and affirms GLBT Jews.

          I have joined with many Jewish congregations, clergy and congregants across the country in signing onto to the following initiative:

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Do Not Stand Idly By: A Jewish Community Pledge to Save Lives

As members of a tradition that sees each person as created in the divine image, we respond with anguish and outrage at the spate of suicides brought on by homophobic bullying and intolerance. We hereby commit to ending homophobic bullying or harassment of any kind in our synagogues, schools, organizations, and communities. As a signatory, I pledge to speak out when I witness anyone being demeaned for their actual or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity. I commit myself to do whatever I can to ensure that each and every person in my community is treated with dignity and respect.

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I encourage you to sign up as well by visiting www.keshetonline.org.

          The bow in the cloud was a sign from God that God would never destroy the world again. Rather, it’s humanity which has the power to wreak violence, havoc and destruction.  But it’s also humanity that has the power to eliminate violence from the earth.  In the Jewish community in particular – we seek to work for Tikkun Olam (“repair of the world”) – when the world will be one and God’s name will be one and the promise of the rainbow will be fulfilled.

          Shabbat shalom

Posted on October 14, 2010 .

Thoughts on Sukkot (5771/2010)

(I delivered this dvar torah at our Shabbat Chol Hamoed Sukkot service on Friday evening 9/24/10)

Earlier this evening we read together a beautiful passage from our siddur composed by Rabbi Sidney Greenberg, a prominent Conservative rabbi who passed away in 2003.  Let me read it again because it bears repeating:

May the door of this synagogue be wide enough

to receive all who hunger for love, all who are lonely for friendship.

May it welcome all who have cares to unburden,

thanks to express, hopes to nurture.

May the door of this synagogue be narrow enough

to shut out pettiness and pride, envy and enmity.

May its threshold be no stumbling block

to young or straying feet.

May it be too high to admit complacency,

selfishness and harshness.

May this synagogue be, for all who enter,

the doorway to a richer and more meaningful life.

Underlying the words of Rabbi Greenberg’s prayer is the understanding that whenever we gather here, the hopes, backgrounds, anxieties, joys, talents and quirks that we bring with us are varied and diverse.  But our tradition teaches that it is IN PARTICULAR when we are together as one community in prayer that we access the holy in a way we can’t do alone – no matter how rich our individual spiritual practices may be.  As we read in Leviticus 22:32 (part of the traditional reading for the first day of Sukkot ):

“Do not profane My holy name, but I will be sanctified in the midst of the Children of Israel (Hebrew: “VENIKDASHTI BETOKH BNAI YISRAEL”)-- , I, the Eternal who sanctifies you.”

A traditional Chasidic teaching explains:   “When a person is singing and cannot lift their voice, and another comes and sings with them, another who CAN lift their voice, the first will be able to lift their voice too.  This is the secret of the bond between spirits”  (Hasidic teaching, cited Siddur Hadesh Yameinu , p. 101)

We need each other – and our own spirituality is nourished by our time together in this Bet Tefillah/ house of prayer, This Bet Midrash/  House of Study  -- This Bet Knesset/ This House of Assembly and Meeting. 

Posted on October 1, 2010 .

Two Fall Holidays Down -- Two More to Go!

It was wonderful seeing everyone at Temple for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur (not to mention a good crowd for Shabbat Shuvah in between).  Wishing everyone a joyous Sukkot, the weeklong Jewish fall harvest festival, which starts this Wednesday evening 9/22 on the full moon of Tishri.  Here's a link to nice little cartoon about Sukkot from the website http://www.g-dcast.com/  

Students in our Hebrew/Religious School will be decorating the Sukkah on Wednesday afternoon -- but all ages are invited.  Then the congregational  Sukkot service and potluck dinner will take place on Friday evening.  

Sukkot is the most universal of Jewish holidays while at the same time celebrating the diversity within the Jewish community.  I plan to speak about these themes on Friday evening.  I hope to see you there!

(and of course we have Shabbat morning services on Saturday morning as well -- check them out if you're not already a Saturday morning "regular"!)

And on Friday October 1st we'll close the fall holiday season with a festive celebration of Simchat Torah as we finish the Torah and wind it back to the beginning of Genesis.  We'll be dancing with the scrolls and we'll also welcome a large group of young people from the Duluth Playhouse children's theatre who are preparing a production of Fiddler on the Roof and will be sharing some of their music with us during the service.

Let the merrymaking commence!

Chag Sameach/Gut Yontif

Rabbi David

 

Posted on September 20, 2010 .

RRA Statement on Park51

[The following is a statement from my professional association, the Reconstructionist Rabbinical Association.   I fully support this position.    Rabbi David Steinberg 8/31/10]

August 25, 2010 / 16 Elul 5770

“RRA STATEMENT on PARK 51”

The Reconstructionist Rabbinical Association (RRA) has watched the conversation unfold around Park51, the proposed community center in lower Manhattan, with deep concern. We fully recognize the strong sentiments that have been aroused, and the passionate expressions of grief that are still raw for many families. As Jews and as rabbis, however, we want to state unambiguously our commitment to the principle of the free exercise of religion, a principle that has allowed Jewish Americans to flourish in this country.

Park51 is a project that seeks to emulate communal institutional expressions of other religious traditions like the YMCA and the JCC which not only provide for their respective faith communities to come together for social and educational offerings, but more importantly, are open to the larger neighborhood regardless of religious affiliation.  As Reconstructionist Jews, we understand that peoplehood is at the core of these institutions - reflecting that Americans of all faiths live in two civilizations simultaneously and Park51 is an opportunity for American Muslims to celebrate their history, traditions and heritage in the embrace of one of the highest American ideals, that of freedom of religion.

We commend Mayor Bloomberg and President Obama for their support of this project and urge them both to be strong and of good courage in the face of rising hate speech and condemnation of the voices of tolerance.   We call on Jews of all denominations to oppose the dangerous rise in these debates and protests.  At this time on the Jewish calendar of moral introspection and teshuvah (returning and repenting), we call on our rabbis to work with their communities to turn toward the kind of America we want to live in going forward, one whose deep commitment to religious pluralism will be strengthened, for Muslim Americans and for all of us.

 

Posted on August 31, 2010 .

Renewing Our Days

“Hashiveynu Adonai, eylekha venashuvah, chadesh yameinu kekedem.” (“Cause us to return to you, Adonai, and we will return; renew our days as in days of old.”). Each Shabbat morning, these words from Megillat Eycha (The Book of Lamentations) accompany our return of the Sefer Torah (Torah scroll) to the ark at the end of the Torah Service.  

I’ve long been struck by this verse --- by its spirit of partnership between God and humanity, by its hopefulness, and by its acknowledgement of the interplay among past, present and future.  We treasure our ancient traditions, while seeking ongoing spiritual and cultural renewal. 

In particular, I often find myself thinking about this verse at times of transition in my own life. I’m writing this article less than a month after I have begun work here at Temple Israel as your new rabbi.  As with any person coming into a new position, I still have plenty to learn about the workings of the place.  However, from the first day here (and indeed for months prior to my arrival) I have been bowled over by the warm welcome that all of you have given to me and Peter.  Thank you so much for your kindness – and thanks in advance for bearing with me while I’m still on my “learning curve” here.

Posted on August 18, 2010 .